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I am attracted to my brother. Should I tell him?

asked Nov 25, 2016 in Questions by newgirl22 (150 points)
edited Nov 25, 2016 by longhands1


I am a 19 year old girl from an upper middle class family. My parents are Government officers in a city in north India. My elder brother is 3 years older than me and is pursuing his engineering graduation from another city and stays in hostel.

I am using internet for a long time and used to enjoy all types of chats when I was in class 10th. However I never disclosed my identity and never done anything wrong in real world and all think that I'm sweet and an innocent girl. For more than one and half years I've became addicted of brother-sister incest stories.

I knew it is wrong but then I thought there is nothing wrong in just reading stories. I have read numerous stories on this and also chatted or spoken with some guys on internet with roleplay of brother-sister. Even I masturbated in nude after hiding my face and background on camera in front of some of the guys, who played my brother's role. I was trying to control it but now I'm feeling its very difficult to hold anymore and yes I'm very much attracted to my brother.

My brother is a very genuine guy with average looks and height. However I am beautiful, very fair, sharp features with perfect sexy curves on all required places on my body.

5 months back when he was at home on 3 weeks vacation, I gave him lot of skin show. Initially he was avoiding direct looking at my curves but I realized soon he started enjoying it. I expected that when he will go back to hostel, he will start calling me or atleast start whats app with little flirting. But he just behaved like nothing happened and kept his behavior as earlier.

This made me sick and for last few months I'm just thinking about him all the time. I just want to get rid of this stress. He will be back home sometime before Christmas on semester break, may be for 2 weeks. Should I tell him all what is in my heart and what I feel for him. I am really confused.

Will I lose my sweet brother-sister relationship? I want to loose my virginity to my brother but not as a girlfriend or ****. Just want to be his loving sister as I'm today.

Please advice any solution to the problem.

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I hope you consider the seriousness of the stuff you are talking about. If you have asked the question in a horny state,let it pass. But if you are seriously thinking about making a move on your brother, you need more than hormones.

First thing is: is he really even interested in you in a sexual way? I mean, he stays far away, he may have a cute girlfriend with whom he maybe having a nice relationship. And I'm sure you don't want to spoil that. So first get to learn him. And as rahulsngh said, initiate it by napping with him. You can start a causal talk, in which he may disclose his status. If he's single you can make a move.

Like in sleep, you can roll over him, make your breasts maul over his face. I'm sure no guy can resist this. If he reciprocates, bingo. But if he acts the opposite, like straighten you and make you sleep properly,respect him as a elder brother and lose his thoughts.
All this was just to help you. I'm strictly against incestuous relations as they do nothing, but just bringing guilt and demoralization.

Think properly, act wisely.

Hope this helps.
answered Nov 25, 2016 by shubs (810 points)
selected Apr 29 by newgirl22
commented Nov 25, 2016 by newgirl22 (150 points)
As per my knowledge he does not have any girl friend. We do not sleep in same bed and we have separate rooms at our home. Other than this he is my elder brother with good strictness to his little sister so I'm scared of asking him. I'm ready to go to any extend but If possible he should approach me first.
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Just exposing your body to him will not work because what you want to do is taboo. You have to take bold steps. I think the best way to initiate these type of relation is by sleeping together. So just try to sleep together and in night make a move. I am sure you will loose your virginity by your sweet brother.  I hope you will be my sister.
answered Nov 25, 2016 by rahulsngh (780 points)
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If you do not want to lose your perfect brother and sister relationship then you should control your feelings and self-control is the only way. You do not want to lose your virginity being a **** but you are on the way of being a **** so it is high time control your feelings and first step you should take is stop reading those stories as it sounds that such stories are not for you to read as it leaves an unrealistic influence on you.

Your brother started behaving normal with you, which shows that he does not want to be in an intimate relationship with you so show your maturity and play the role of responsible sister rather than pervert girl. There are plenty of guys out there so you can have sex with them and you can make a boyfriend too, if you wish but you should not cross the boundary at home.

Incestuous relationships are always ending up with guilt and losing respect among the society. Since you are a beautiful girl I do not think you will find any difficulties to get a boyfriend and you can enjoy with him but it is really wrong of you to think about your own brother in a sexual manner. 

answered Nov 25, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (25,535 points)
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If he takes the initiative, he will think that its a big risk. Your exposure doesn't indicate whether its for him or someone else. Inside his head he'll be thinking what if my sister caught me staring? What will she think of me, a pervert ? He doesn't know that exposure  is for him and he's guessing it right. You have to take it further and make it pretty obvious that you want to pull the curtains down. If a guy guesses it right, BINGO! If his guess gets wrong, his character gets questioned.... that's your brother's dilemma. Start flirting with him and make him lower his guards.
answered Nov 25, 2016 by gr8gaur (2,065 points)
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I am regularly reading erotic stories and getting aroused now and then.I love to read brother-sister,father-daughter and mother-son incest stories.Morally I dislike incest and never got involved in such activities with sister,mother and daughter.Never think about them in dream and fantasise them.Losing your virginity to your brother is highly condemnable.Refrain from this and it is better to attempt on his friend.But never get pregnant and do it once only.
answered Nov 25, 2016 by Motilal (7,540 points)
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newgirl if u want to loose your virginity to your brother you can go ahead because he likes watching you he will definitely be dying to have sex with you. But don't tell him directly. You should better seduce him. He will be visiting you in Christmas means it will be winter.

Winter season is most pleasurable season from sex point of view. You should always sleep with him holding him. During the night dont wear any woollen clothes. Try to wear shorts or skirt do that he can enjoy your thighs. Wear tight fitting tops. Always ask him to hook or unhook your bra. Watch movies together. Find opportunity to sleep in his lap so that you can touch his penis.

Ask about his gf or his sexual life. Definitely you will get get what you want. Also you will have full privacy enjoying sex in your home.

answered Nov 25, 2016 by Bird (475 points)
commented Nov 25, 2016 by newgirl22 (150 points)
Hello Bird. We have separate rooms in our home and we do not sleep on same bed. Other than that when he came last time I showed him lot with tight fitting cloths, wet cloths, mini skirt etc but seems that he did not understand or he just ignored it. He still treat me as kid sister to whom he wants to protect from outside world.
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I believe I can help you in this matter. First, there are some missing details. There is no mention of your brother's relationship status. Your success depends on what is his state. If he is sexless he would be easy to get. Do you guys talk about birds and bees. You have to first communicate to your brother.

Seducing won't work as according to your description you brother seems like very trustworthy towards you. I won't comment on the basis of ethics or morality.I was also attracted to my sister and did not know how to express it. There were mixed articles on the basis of ethics and morality. I was confused about making any progress. Her body was too hot and I could not control.

Somehow I progressed with her and she agreed too as she was also sex deprived.  Current I am in such relationship with my elder sis and it is working fantastic. We are loving more than we used to love earlier. There is more trust in our relationship that it was before. I hope there won't be any problem regarding your brother sister relationship.

The only trouble may occur after his marriage. That is not the current problem. It is highly safe to enjoy with your brother. Be careful about your parents. Feel free to connect anytime regarding this issue.

answered Nov 25, 2016 by robotboy1 (730 points)
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I will write in short. As a girl; it is very easy to seduce a guy whether it is your brother. 1st decide what you want to do.
If you think it is fine to get fucked by him then it is ok, If you thinks its wrong then it is wrong. It all depends only on you.

But remember once you start you can't go on back foot. You have to continue it till both of you decide to stop.
answered Dec 9, 2016 by ak_03 (135 points)

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