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Have a week to decide. Should I go for it?

asked Nov 9, 2016 in Questions by Ravi13 (135 points)
edited Nov 10, 2016 by longhands1

Hello Friends,

To some of you, this may sound like a fantasy, but until it happens in your life you will never believe.

l have a cousin brother in Chennai. He works in a small industry He leaves early in morning and returns late at night. He Is living with 2 kids and his wife. The kids like me very much. We used to play games together and they often asked me to stay on weekends .

While we were sleeping at night with a bed sheet over us, she used to pat her kids and me on the chest in a motherly manner. Everything was normal. I didn't have any bad intention just like returning favor I also started patting her while she was asleep.

I don’t know how but as days passed, I started feeling her boobs. Initially she gave a bit resistance trying  to move away my hand and I did it again until my brother comes home. But In morning she seems normal and behaves very casual like nothing happened and speaks normally to me. I started feeling guilt and I stopped doing it, but after someweeks again In the middle of the night, I felt like someone has shook me very hard. l know that she only did this. Then I just placed my hand over her boobs. Same thing happened.

Before i started proceeding to the next level, I got on oiffer for going abroad, so I moved out of the country. I used to speak regularly to her. After 2 months, I could not take my mind off from her, so I asked her about this matter but she said this Is wrong, not to do this kind of act. kids was there so i didn't say saything.. blah blah blah...
So I thought not to disturb her and I didn't speak about it.

Now I am on vacation in India. I visited her and am and staying in her house for last couple of days. Same thing is happening. She shook me in the night and after lot of hesitation, I started smooching her boobs, but this time she has shown very little resistance. So now I am unsure why she Is doing like this and what she wants.

Guys please help me what should I do. I have one more week left for my vacation to get over.

Ps : She is 46 years old and I am 29 years old. I know that the age difference is a lot.

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commented Nov 30, 2016 by Ravi13 (135 points)
Thank you all for your comments and suggestion. Still i could not able to decide anything and my flight was on sunday, so i thought of spending time with cousins on weekend. I reached there on friday evening. Everything went as usual in night. Saturday morning my cousins was getting ready for the school bcoz of some special class which i didnt know. After a long struggle between my mind and desire i thought of go ahead. After Bro and cousin went for school and work, finally to my luck it happened. Experience was quite different. But after that we could not able to make eye contact and we didnt speak. Almost two weeks of regular call and msg now she started speaking to me. But till now we didnt speak about the incident. Hope soon i will make move on that too. I am not sure i have to feel guilt or proud of me. But I have decided not to think. And last thank for your suggestion.

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Hello friend,

After reading your question, I feel that you are trying to flirt with her. If she is resisiting means that she is not ready to be with you. And she is from your famiy. If your brother comes to know, it will unnecessarily spoil their life.

Better avoid.
answered Nov 10, 2016 by dr kalyan (465 points)
commented Nov 10, 2016 by Ravi13 (135 points)
Yes i am trying to flirt with her same as she is with me. I mean if she dont want to touch her boobs means she can directly tell me or move away from the bed as soon as i touch her. But she didn't. Thats what makes me more confuse
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Your cousin brother, his wife, their 2 kids and you. How do you manage to sleep in one bed under a bed sheet?

Your cousin brother’s wife seems to be quite motherly, since she pats you to sleep. Does she also sing to you, before sleeping. I cannot figure how you were returning the favour, by patting her too. You slept only on the weekends. I must say you progressed quite fast to feeling her boobs. A woman who allows you to feel her boobs, wants more than just a patting. I quite like the part of someone shaking you hard when you are asleep. It could be your cousin, trying to awaken you from your dreams of having an intimate moment with his wife.  

Distance makes the heart grow fonder. It also makes the cock grow harder. So obviously, you have been thinking about the lovely time that you could have had, if you had gone patting down a little lower than the boobs.

So, what are you waiting for? Now that you have reached the destination. One week has many hours in it. Find an excuse to send your cousin away for 7 days and you will find that it is quite a long time to have sex.

Don’t worry about the age difference. If she is as excited as you are about the prospect of having her naked, then age is no barrier. Remember 29, can go more times into 46 then the other way around.

So, what are you waiting for? For us to tell you what to do?

answered Nov 10, 2016 by longhands1 (85,735 points)
commented Nov 10, 2016 by Ravi13 (135 points)
Hi longhands1
Thanks for ur suggestion
In my cousin house the two beds are combined togather which give space to all of us to sleep in same bed.
I hope she will sing for me soon in private.
Maybe true true my cousin try to awake me haha i know this kind of question looks like fantasy only for most of us. The truth is as soon as my brother come home we will stop this act. She will move mext to my brother and no way to touch her. Even if i try to touch her she will forcefully remove my hand. Since i cannot write down all the details, if i do it will become a full lenght story ;).
commented Nov 11, 2016 by longhands1 (85,735 points)

Ravi, How can she allow you when her brother comes home? It is not clear what you are doing with her when he is not at home? You have to write the details for us to guide you properly. I dont want the sex details but the whole picture.

Otherwise how can we guess?

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Hey Ravi!!!
I have been in the same situation once when I was very young. I had a cousin sister and we used to sleep together at our granny's place. When pubery hit; we started getting into all kinds of stupid acts like touching each other while asleep. Finally; this was noticed by our family one day and they scolded us. The result is that I still feel uneasy in her presence.
You don't want the same thing to happen to you, right?
So please stay away from her, If possible, sleep away from her.

Hope my experience helps you!!!

- Rahul
answered Nov 10, 2016 by Passionate_Rahul (245 points)
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She definitely wants sex as her actions sound that she is ready for it but somehow she is unable to take bold steps so being a man it is your responsibility to get done the rest of work if you want to have sex with her. You should not ask her what she wants rather you should act on it and try to have sex with her even though if she shows resistance as I am sure she will start reciprocating your moves after initial resistance.

If you do not want to have sex with her then you should stay away from her and move back to your house as staying there would not help you but your question sounds that you want to make sexual relationship with her so you have a great opportunity waiting for you. Decide what you want and then act accordingly. If I were in your place then I would have fucked her so many times by this time so still you have a few weeks left to enjoy her pussy so do not miss it. However, you should act what your instinct says as final decision depends on you. 

answered Nov 11, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (27,745 points)

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