First, let me give you my background.
My dad is a retired Police Officer and mom is a Professor. We live in a very happy family. I have 2 sisters, who are married. My younger sister is smarter than my elder sister. She stays with us because her husband is working in another State, and comes home once a month.
She is earning good income,, and deals with online shopping sites. She is busy online and on whatsaap with her clients and customers. She is very supportive to all our relatives and so we have a special consideration towards her.
My elder sister had a love marriage and her husband is very smart and has a high sense of humor, so everyone likes him and listens to his jokes. Two years back, there was a fight between my elder sister and her husband. This issue was not known to our parents and other family members but only we siblings know about this. We hid this issue from our parents and others, as we have good image among other family members. My younger sister was the mediator with elder sister and her hubby to solve the issue. Younger sister is always calling Jeeju to discuss and their discussion in private was always very long.
My elder sister stays next to our city. One day she called me and asked to go to her home. She was almost on the edge of a suicide attempt. She opened her heart to me and told me what is happening between our younger sister and her Jeeju. She had found a whatsapp message which sounded fishy and she had a big fight with her husband and sister. She noticed that when Jeeju goes out to the health club and to meet his friends, he and younger sister are both online at the same time.
One of Jeejus best friends informed elder sister to keep an eye on her husband. We decided to meet this friend and asked him the reason. He informed that something is going wrong in your family. My elder sister our mom about this issue, but no one is ready to believe. My younger sister has created such a big image in the family, that mom scolded my elder sister saying you are jealous of you younger sister.
Since she does not have any proof, they are saying it is just a coincidence that both are online together. Now, our younger sister is also saying that elder sister is jealous and she has got mental problems after getting mom’s support.
My elder sister is fed up with all this but she really loves her hubby and does not want divorce as it will affect her children's future. She calls me daily and cries. Her hubby always keeps messages deleted and mobile locked.
Recently, I noticed that my younger sister goes out of the house at the same time my jeeju also will be in our town. One of my friends working in a Star hotel informed me that my jeeju and younger sister was there. Another friend informed me that they were found in a coffee shop.
I am very much disturbed these days. I want to save my family. There is a possibility of 2 divorces or one suicide. Our parents social status and peaceful life will be spoiled. This will affect my marriage proposal. I am helpless in this situation. I also have no evidence to prove their extramarital relationship. To get the evidence, I will need to hack their whatsapp or tap the telephone calls. But, I don’t have any idea how to do it.
Please friends, help me to save my family. We cannot disclose this current situation to anyone. If we have strong evidence we can inform our parents. Please take it as your own family matter and tell me what you would have done in the circumstances. Please don’t answer that they are adults and they have freedom to choose their lifestyle. This is about saving our Family.
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