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Should I propose to my neighbour bhabhi again?

asked Oct 21, 2016 in Questions by sumit12 (125 points)
edited Oct 21, 2016 by longhands1
I am 23 year old. I proposed to my neighbour bhabhi 4 years ago, but she refused me.

She had  scolded me. She said I am too young for her and she has 2 children.after that I continuosly saw her but she got angry.

Recently I month ago I started to talk with her on mobile as a friend.she consider me a good she shares me her thought and about her family also. now how I can propose her. she is 33 now.
commented Oct 21, 2016 by ruchisingh306 (125 points)
try and will get success
commented Oct 27, 2016 by sumit12 (125 points)
till now on 26/10/2016 I cleared her  about my feelings for her.we shared our views of past 4 years.that what she did and what I.  usually I looked at her whenever she is outside her house.I told her everything.when I asked she told me about her school and college life and about her family members. before 3-4 days ago she went to father's house and she told me that she thought about me on entire journey in train that she could not sleep.she told me that at last she thought that these happening can affect my future and now my a bad news for me that she was pointing me to stop talks too much on phone.but I observe that she cares me but she can't express.I think she has a hesitation. she thought she is married and to elder from me.but when I asked she told me that if she is of my age she marry with how I proceed. will I ask her about her marriage life and  than her suhagrat.

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Four years ago,you were a teenager of 19.Neighbour Bhabhi didn't feel any interest in you.She did the right thing and didn't like to spoil your life.You proposed her for what....what you saw continuously in her but she got angry...please illucidate this point.This age is formative period of your life,it is not time to indulge in sex.Refrain from doing your one sided activities.
answered Oct 21, 2016 by Motilal (6,635 points)
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You seem to be a person who never gives up. Nice quality to have in life, but I am not sure it may work in sex.

So what has changed? You have become older, but have you become wiser? I don't think so. Did your neighbour tell you she would consider your proposal when you become older and wiser?

Respect her friendship. She has been kind enough to speak to you. Take this as an opportunity to get to know her better and I don't mean when she is nude!

Tell me what do you intend proposing to her? Ma'am can I fuck You? That is not going to work. You may have to wait for another four years. What you should do is make her your friend. Get to know her better. Ask her out for a cup of tea and then proceed from there.

answered Oct 21, 2016 by longhands1 (78,025 points)
edited Oct 29, 2016 by longhands1
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What made you think that she would not reject you this time? Is it because she starts talking to you on the phone and shares her thoughts with you? It might be possible that she really considers you as a true friend so restrain yourself for spoiling a good friendship which you recently developed.

However, matter would be different if she sends any hint that she is inclined towards you romantically but as such she did not. If you want to get yourself embarrassed again then propose her otherwise, wait until she is ready to be with you tenderly. Be with her, make her laugh, take care of her, listen her, give her moral support, buy her gifts and be a good person in front of her to get her close to you. 

answered Oct 22, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,225 points)
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Is your neighborhood bhabhi a widow or not? And if you're only looking for fun then don't bother a lot, plenty of fishes in the sea.
answered Oct 22, 2016 by gr8gaur (1,900 points)
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Dear S, 

Your neighbor aunty can only explain why she denied you before 4 year. There might be N number of reasons but she might be considered your age and expertise while denying. A woman mainly a married one may not allow you instantly to share her bed with you. A married woman allows a young boy for sex she is thirsty for something or something which unable to fill by his husband or family in terms of sex or money or love or others.

You have to continue your friendship with you and express your feelings towards her. Try to win her trust and faith so that she will share everything with you. You should be keep patience for the opportunity and till now nothing to do except friendship. It’s a tasted time for you. Whenever she find suitable time she would take to the proper place for sex. A married woman have number of ways to get away from the house for these session or her room would be the best place for such desire.

answered Oct 23, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,735 points)
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What are you looking in her ??
She has 2 children & living happy life why you want to do this??
If she talking with you mean she trusts you & you are going to break that?
You go for another girl of your age & don't spoil her life & if she talks about this to her husband or anyone you & your parents have to suffer from society.
So don't go deep inside this just find good girl & get settled
answered Oct 26, 2016 by Shah231 (170 points)

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