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Shall i have sex with my 50+ yr old office receptionist?

asked Oct 15, 2016 in Questions by $Rahul$ (235 points)
reshown Oct 20, 2017 by longhands1
I am almost 29 and look nerdy (clean shaven with specs). There is this receptionist in my office. She is a 50-55 yr old aunty who usually wears Salwar kameez, red bindi etc.

Recently she asked me if I happen to be  her neighborhood I can visit her at her house. She is not married and so have  no children. I know she is old enough to be my mom, however I am thinking of using this opportunity to have sexual relations with her. For some reason I have gut feeling that she too   wants this or else why would she say this.

I don't have a girlfriend and my marriage is only possible when I am financially stable. I was thinking since both of us adults and are not married and alone when can fuck, sexually satisfy each other's needs.

I believe a young guy like me can sexually satisfy mature old aunties more than those old uncles. I have the stamina to have sex after 4-5 ejaculations.

If or when I have sex with her I don't plan to use condom. I want her to take birth control pills to avoid pregnancy. Is this safe?

Ever since I was 13 I wanted to have sex with a grown up mature aunty and this is my chance.

Should I proceed or is this immoral?

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You can take some trial and training from her there is nothing wrong to have sex with older womenn the advantage is you can get good training and gain good skills from her.

Take proper steps to meet her and have a good times if you do not have experience tell her freely about this so that she can guide her well and develop some good skills
best of luck to both of you
answered Oct 15, 2016 by ramanravi (185 points)
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In one month you seem to have changed your resolve. In your last post you told us that you are a virgin and saving all your cum for your future wife. But then resolves are to be broken and when you are thinking with an erection and not with your head I do not blame you.

You have told us about your fetish for opening the legs of mature women and MILFs so getting an invitation from a 50 year old woman must be like honey to your ears.

However you may be jumping to conclusions. It is possible that she is only being friendly to a 29 year old colleague. Her inviting you when you are around could be a social gesture. No need to get an it is.erection so soon.

Why are you asking us if it is wrong? You know it is. You also think that you are God's answer to all mature women. You are a Virgin, do not have a girlfriend and have no experience of what women desire. So stop thinking that you are better than most uncles. For all you know, you may ejaculate with your first stroke.

You have still a long way to go in understanding what mature women want.

answered Oct 16, 2016 by longhands1 (80,370 points)
edited Oct 29, 2016 by longhands1
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How a 50-55 years old un-married Receptionist can have children is not clear to me.You have stamina to have sex after 4-5 are starving to do sex since age of 13.Don't go for pre-marital sex.
answered Oct 16, 2016 by Motilal (7,000 points)
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Grab the opportunity with both hands because it is rare thing men get so do not lose it thinking that whether it is immoral or not. If your guts are telling you that she wants intimate relationship with you  then you should believe your guts and act on it but smartly so if your guts are on wrong side you can manage  to get out of the situation so sent hints to her that you want to visit her house and see her reactions. Her reactions will make many things clear so just spark up the conversation and spend your most of time in between her legs.

You can have sex with her without condom if you are sure about her health or aware of her sexual history. It would be better to set boundaries for both of you before starting sexual relationship so no one would feel used one later on. I had sex with many women but let me tell you distinctively that mature women are much better than younger one so you have a great chance to enjoy mature body so do not lose this occasion.


answered Oct 17, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)
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Dear R,

The women in her 50s may think something different from you. You are a young chap and she has expertise. Social gestures cannot be taken as granted because without knowing the person you are predicting her character and mind which would be suit to you. Its biasness.

Sex without condom is always risky because women in this age maynot be pregnant but the chance of getting infected would be more.

If she is allowing her for sex then you are lucky and don’t miss the chance. She would be your sex teacher and can able to teach you better. If you are thinking about moral values then return back. 

answered Oct 17, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)
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Nothing is wrong with having a sex with older women  but with her consent only other wise ur relationship will spoil first try to seduce her then move but use condom always it's very nice to havesex with matured women but with safety use condom for safe sex don't lock up in a problem be safe enjoyyyy
answered Oct 18, 2016 by naidu362 (400 points)
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everything is fair if you want from heart
answered Oct 21, 2016 by ruchisingh306 (125 points)

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