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What should I keep in mind to have protected sex?

asked Aug 2, 2016 in Questions by pandit (295 points)
edited Aug 4, 2016 by longhands1

Hello Anjali,

I want to have sex with my cousin and she also has agreed. We have done oral sex a lot but now we want to go beyond this and have intercourse.

This will be my first time, I am going to have penetration of my penis in her vagina, but I have no idea how to proceed. Please help me out. Also please advise me how  to use condom and what pill, I can use for protected sex.

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Dear P,

 Protected sex means you have to protect you and your cousin from diseases transmitted from intercourse and also avoid pregnancy. When the relationship is not certified or accepted by the society in that case the sex partners should use condom which is the best and effective way. You may not put her in trouble so you will be agree to accept for sex without pregnancy. 

 There are other ways for control the pregnancy by using spermicidal cream, pills, vaginal tablets. You are free to adopt any of the following methods. Be prepared for your sex session and avoid such places which will create problem for couples. The place should be safe either at home of such a reputed hotel.

Please read the steps of condom use:

Step 1: Check the expiry date. You don’t want to use an expired condom that may break. Also, make sure it’s stated on the packaging that it meets Australian standards.

Step 2: Open the packet carefully; don’t use your teeth as you don’t want to tear the condom.

Step 3: Hold the tip of the condom to remove any air and then roll it down to the base of the erect penis. Make sure the condom isn’t inside out before attempting to roll it on. If you do roll it on inside out there’s a possibility it could have some sexual fluids on it (like pre cum). The best thing to do here is to grab another one and start again.

Step 4: Put some water-based lubricant on the outside of the condom. This will reduce the risk of the condom breaking and even increase pleasure. Try not to use oil-based lubricants such as Vaseline; these can sometimes cause the condom to break.

Step 5: After ejaculation, make sure the penis is withdrawn while still erect. Make sure you hold onto the base of the condom while you’re withdrawing. You don’t want it to slip off.

Step 6: Remove the condom, tie a knot in the end, wrap it in a tissue and put it in the bin.

Pill is another contraceptive used by females. There are number of brands available in the pharma shops. 

Its depends upon both which is comfortable for you to choose.

answered Aug 4, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)
selected Aug 5, 2016 by pandit