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My girlfriend want a quickie and cunnilingus. What she means?

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asked Jul 30, 2016 in Questions by Loda Spanker (120 points)
edited Jul 30, 2016 by longhands1

I am a virgin. After a lot of wait, I might be fucking a girl in the near future .But she has asked me to go for a quickie and she wants cunninglus. I don't know what it is. I don't even have the full knowledge of a female body except the vagina and nil knowledge of anal.

What is quickie? Is it safe and what are the best positions? Same goes for cunninglus. I know what it is from the Net, but how to do it to give her pleasure and is it safe?

How to avoid premature ejaculation in her vagina?

Anjali maam, please help me personally. Your Voice message would be preferred. Thank You.

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It sounds that you both have lack communication in the relationship. It would be better if you ask her what she meant it as she can only reveal it to you. Ask her what she wants in bed and you to do for her to make the experience pleasurable.

If you are sure that you won’t be able to last in the bed with her when you are in her vagina then before having penetrative sex masturbate so your second time would be comparative longer. One more thing do not take pressure on yourself to perform well otherwise pressure of performance would make you nervous and you won’t be able to do well.

Don’t expect too much things from the first sex as you both need some time to get use to it. Once you would become use to sex, you can start doing well as sex is art of loving making and just not penis vagina things. Have words with her and try to know what she wants to do in the first time sex and what her expectations from you are.

Find safe place and take your own time to have sex with her. If you are in hurry then sex would not be as pleasurable as it should be. Be relax and express your feelings, I am sure she will guide how to go about it. Most important thing is keep the pack of condom in your pocket and play safe. 

answered Jul 30, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (26,020 points)
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You are not yet still sure whether you will fuck your girl friend or not.Take a firm decision in this regard.Do a deep thinking before going ahead.First go for Cunnilingus then do Quickie.Cunnilingus is stimulation of female genitals with tongue or lips of male partner.Quickie is a brief and spontaneous act of sexual intercourse.
answered Jul 31, 2016 by Motilal (7,755 points)
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Dear L,

You are going to experience sex in near future so you have to gather knowledge from this forum and others which would be helpful you to perform better. I think you are anxious about your real performance in real sex. Your explanation indicating that you are comparing your sexual act with the actress/actors in porn movies. Members of askanjali.com discussed about the topic of porn and real life several times. You have to understand that there is time limit for penetrative sex in real life whereas the most of the porn star using number of medicines to boost their performance.

Different women have different G Spots which needs to be pressed for excitement. Before that you have to emotionally attached with the girl with whom you are going to marry or have sex. When both of you will not feel comfortable with each other then none will give 100%. Its your mind that thinking about the hardcore sessions without thinking about the feelings for each other.

The term quickie and cunninglus derived from porn as found in search engines. In these movies most of the actor/actress are unknown to each other. Please see the movie "Have you Seen This Movie -2013". After the shooting there is no deal with each other but in your case you have to take care of your partner for long time. If you invite others to participate in sex like another women eat her pussy then it will bring disaster in your relationship.

Both should discuss thoroughly about desire of both and decide the place and time for sex. After doing this most of your doubts will be resolved. After all you have to resolve your problem not the person suggesting. Please note that the communication gap increase the chance of stress. The relationship between stress and sex are follows:

1. Stress contributes to a negative body image. Bad body image = bad sex.
2. Stress takes a toll on our libido.Lower quantity of sex hormones equals lower libido.
3. Stress makes us question our relationships and our partners.
4. Stress can lead to excessive drinking. Excessive drinking makes for bad sex.
5. Stress impacts our fertility and our menstrual cycle. When we are stressed, our hormones levels take a dive.
answered Jul 31, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)

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