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I want to make "Friendship" with my mom on FB as a Stranger.

asked Jul 23, 2016 in Questions by hot.agni.varun (120 points)
edited Jul 23, 2016 by longhands1

Hello AskAnjali team,

I am 23 years and my mom is 45 years old. Now-a-days, I am curious about my mom's sex life and her life's secret. I want to know what she is doing in her routine life, what are her interests, likings, about her personal things and feeling, about her sexual feelings or does she have any boyfriend or is interested in having one.

What should I do to get to know about these things? Can I approach her on Facebook as a Stranger and then start talking to her? Or should I become her whats app friend and then start having sex chat with her?

Please give me your suggestions.


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Desist from such activities. Get serious. Hoodwinking your own mother to understand what makes her tick is downright disgusting/treacherous/uncivil and also dangerous for you. Moreover, you want to have sex chat, which means you are entering incestual territory. Don't deceive your own mother for such petty gains.
I am not AGAINST incest nor am I FOR it. Each to his/her own, for I cannot be judgemental on such things. But fooling your own mother for some petty sexual highs is simply disgusting.
On the other hand, if you really love and care for your mother, take the direct approach. If she is a promiscuous women and you think you can get into her panties approach her with love and care. Tell her your feelings towards her. If she accepts you, your wish will be fulfilled.
answered Jul 23, 2016 by oxheart707 (510 points)
commented Jul 23, 2016 by oxheart707 (510 points)
I forgot to add the following: You must have checked out "incest" topic this ASKANJALI
search above. If not, do so. I just want to bring to your notice that Incest may lead to extraordinary circumstances. It may not be as you fantasise. As an example do read this ---> . Secondly, if your mother is not what you think of her or is against INCEST she will bring you back to reality with a tight slap. So think carefully and rationally before you broach the topic to her.
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What will you gain by knowing those details about her? Are you planning to have sex with her? Is she your fantasy woman? I do not think she will start talking to you on facebook or she starts having sex chat with you on whatsapp.

There are plenty of fish in the sea so space your mom and go for another girl. You have no right to think this way about your mom. Respect the boundary between you and your mom. Consider her as a mom and play the role of responsible son rather than pervert street boy.

However, story would be different if your mom shows interest in you but you have not mentioned anything from her side so just stay away from her and do not disturb her marital life. Even if she has a boyfriend then it is none of your business.

You are 23 years old so your focus should be on other stuff regarding your career rather than such stuff with your mom. Learn how to control yourself, respect your mom, and shift your focus on meaningful activities, as I do not want to give you immoral advice. 

answered Jul 23, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,335 points)
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Your mom is your guardian and friend.She kept you in her womb for about ten months.You should refrain from your unlawful activities.You shouldn't bother about her private life.Respect her and lead a normal life.You can chat with your mother directly at home.Shun your evil thoughts.
answered Jul 23, 2016 by Motilal (6,740 points)
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Dear H,

You may be agree that you are feeling alone and dont have friends who can able to discuss about the sex and related thoughts. It would be if you try another person in facebook and get in touch with her that will give you pleasure and amazement.

Your logic towards the vigilance eye towards your own mother is beyond level of understanding. Your explanation not cleared whether she is alone or have affairs or your dreaming girl? Have you seen something that excites you?  You have to open up and tell the members  so that more people share their ideas to resolve your problem.

If your mother is not comes to that category and come to know about you as well as your activity then she would be upset. You are in your twenties so chat with girls/women in web and try to understand them instead of your mother. Her state of mind must be different as compared to you and your age.

In the society of independence allow her to do what she desired to do. Try to respect the relations because it has some meaning.By doing this you will spoil your career and image. These may lead to serious psychological problem.

You have to put all comments from different users into mind and decide in which way way you want to go.
answered Jul 24, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,735 points)
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You  are destroying a relationship of son and mom dont do it it's not good your are just 23 search a new girl and do with her
Your have long life to live concentrate on job or studies whatever you doing now lead a good life
Don't do this type of unwanted plan which may harm you
answered Jul 29, 2016 by rajan08 (275 points)
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I understand that you want to know the 'other' side of your mom but the path you are choosing is full of risk. I too wanted to know the true nature of my mom and I have found out that she did have an affair with her boss.

In today's world, it is very common to have extra marital affairs and many women have multiple sex partners just for enjoyment and fun. Naturally our moms are also women and want to enjoy life. There is nothing wrong in that.

If you suspect your mom has a bf, let her keep it a secret and allow her to have fun with him
answered Sep 8, 2017 by (130 points)
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Hi varun.

My friend, listen to me, if you want to know about your mother/dad ask directly. Share your secret to her and hopefully she will share hers with you as well, if she feels that you are will keep her secret.

About sexual feeling: Did you get any indication that she might cheat on your father? Is she involved in some suspicious activity? If this is the case then you have right to intervene, because it is your family have right to protect it.

If you find that she has boyfriend and cheated on your father..then remember she is not your mother, she is just a woman who needs a dick between her legs. And you can proceed.

I find extremely disgusting when some people cheer EMA with married colleagues and uncle and say a big No to parents-children or brother-sister incest.

You know why people are so much against incest relationship? If a woman is happy with her son then what will happen with hungry neighbor uncle/colleagues? That is why they use moral values! Respect your mother, her personal life/ her choice (omg!) so that they can have her.

People who thinks that mother son relationship will be destroyed in incest relationship.... It won't, As long as it is consensual then there is no problem.

If you spy on your nother and found that she is a woman of honour in every aspect then confess to her what you did, touch her feet and say sorry. She will forgive you.and she will know that her son dont follow blindly, and have guts to admit his wrong doing.
answered Nov 13, 2017 by Kitkatray (355 points)
edited Nov 13, 2017 by Kitkatray

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