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How to stop my my cousin sister's extra marital affair with my brother?

asked Jul 17, 2016 in Questions by Sam24 (120 points)
edited Jul 17, 2016 by longhands1

I am Sameer, ages 33 years and married. I do not have any kids. My cousin sister is also married and has one kid. She is having an affair with my cousin and is also married having 2 kids.

They were having an affair before their marriage. My cousin has told me this many times.

How can I stop this?

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commented Jul 17, 2016 by abhi14343 (1,840 points)
Why did you bother about their relationship

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It is not understood why you are interfering in your married cousin sister’s marital life. There seems to me more to it than you are telling us. Have you been fantasizing about her? This should not be a matter that you should lose sleep about.

You have said that your cousin brother has mentioned this affair to you. Is he looking to you for a solution? Does he want to stop this affair and wants your intervention? Since they are having this affair even before marriage, I don’t see it ending any time soon.

Are you worried that their children will be affected by this affair? Here again it is no concern of yours and they are both adult enough to understand what is good or bad for their families.

Stop interfering.

answered Jul 17, 2016 by longhands1 (80,625 points)
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Dear Sa,

Your cousin brother share his affair with you means that he has faith on you.Its better to let him continue his relation because both are happy inspite of their marital status. In your question its not clear that why are you want stop the affairs? You have to explain what is going on your mind so that the readers can able to understand the basic problem that your are facing. Until and unless you explain your problem or desire the readers are going to answer/comment then with speculation, which may be away from the reality. This will confuse you. Improper explanation also restrict other members to answer the question.

There are number of possibility for your desire to stop the act. The possibilities would be as under:
1. You might be dreaming your cousin sister or you have affairs with her.
2. She is giving time to both, possibly she is prioritising him which made you jealous.
3. Your cousin brother might be in trouble for which you want to bring him from the blue.
4. You may have high moral for which you don't want such affairs among cousin.
5. Your cousin brother might be looking towards one of your beloved which disturbing you. As you have close relation with him you are unable to ignore him.

You should explain your question further so that the matter will be clear.
answered Jul 17, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)
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Why you want to stop it? You have no right to dabble in their personal matter and since they are adult enough to know what is right and wrong, you should stay away from their affair. Maintain your family relationship and behave that you do not concern with their affair. Focus on your life and stop looking into other’s life. You should not judge other people around you and they would not stop having sex just because you want them to stop it. 

answered Jul 18, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (24,005 points)
commented Jul 24, 2016 by Sam24 (120 points)
Actually i want my cosine for sex she is to much hot n sexy
commented Jul 24, 2016 by longhands1 (80,625 points)


You should have mentioned this when you asked the question. It would have given us better idea to advice you.

commented Jul 25, 2016 by Sam24 (120 points)
Dear friends, actually I liked her for many years but I was scared to tell her. A year ago, I was back and got the news that she is married. I was very upset. After a few days my cousin brother told me about their sexual relationship. I was shocked.

How can I break this relationship as I need to fuck her.

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