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My wife always like to be naked at home infront of the maid. Is this wrong?

asked Jul 13, 2016 in Questions by albertvan (120 points)
edited Jul 17, 2016 by longhands1

We have been married for 7 years. We also have a maid who stays with us, She is around 50. Earlier my maid used to tell my wife to wear sexy dress when I come back home. She also used to tell me to to wear only towel or underwear.

Now my wife stays naked infront of her and me. She has also asked me to be naked at home. My maid sleeps in our room. When we are having sex she will also see us and since she is a matured woman we both dont feel shy about it.

Now a days, the maid also sleeps naked. One day when I and my were in bed nude, my maid came and gave me a full body massage. My wife showed her appreciation and complimented both of us.

Is there any thing we are doing wrong? Can we continue?

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commented Jul 13, 2016 by mkp (135 points)
Strange...your maid is sleeping with you both in same room... And sleep naked....!

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Dear A,

Please clarify you age and details of members staying with you including children.

Both your wife and maid developed proximity. You three are sleeping in the same room and she also saw you both while in sex. It seems that your wife wants some more experience and innovation in sexual life. Whenever maid is telling your wife to wear sexy dresses that indicates there is something unfulfilled in your wife's mind which needs to be known. You maid may be interested to wear such sexy dress which couldnt expressed to you.

If your wife happy while she is giving you massage indicates that your wife interested for threesome. It is obvious that when you are sleeping naked then your maid see your tools. You have to share your feeling at the time of massage? Also tell us about your past relation with the MAID.

If you all are enjoying the play and interested for hardcore after few days then it would give another outlook to the relation as well as sexual behaviour. If you are thinking in the aspect of morality then there are some issues like why you are allowing another woman to your married life? What is the limitation of her involvement?
answered Jul 13, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,735 points)
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There are many questions in my mind which arise when I read your question.

My first question is the use of the word “wish” in your tags at the end of your question. Is this your wish and fantasy that you have or has it really happened?

You have not told us about you and your wife’s age. I presume it must be less that you maid’s as you have been married only for 7 years. How long has the maid being staying with you’ll? Do you have any children? I cannot imagine you all would be sleeping naked, with children around. Is your maid and wife into a lesbian relationship? Is your maid married? What is her marital status? Why is she living with you? Do you have shortage of sleeping space, which forces your maid to sleep in the same room as you and your wife?

I hope you will clarify all the above points, so that we know that this is not a fake question and a figment of your imagination.

I can imagine your wife and the maid being nude, if they have a lesbian relationship and so are comfortable with each other. The equation changes when you also are nude in front of the maid. Who encouraged your maid to give you a body massage? Did it result in sex with her? Or did she only give you a hand job? What was your wife’s participation during the massage?    

You have asked if you are doing wrong? If you and your wife are fine with this arrangement, then I think it does not matter what others (we) think.

You have to balance your fantasy with your reality. 

answered Jul 14, 2016 by longhands1 (78,285 points)
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It is not the matter of right and wrong but it is matter of whether, you are comfortable or not to be naked around her all the time. You three are adult so you have all right to enjoy your time the way you feel comfortable.

However, society we live does not encourage such thing but that does not mean that it is not happening or one should not do it. It sounds that it was planned by your maid and your wife to make you comfortable around her so they can have threesome sex with you.

They are both sharing strong bond and they must be having lesbian sex when you are out of the home and they are smartly preparing you for threesome as all the signs indicate that they both are ready to take your penis one by one.

Therefore, now ball is in your court to decide whether to have threesome or not. From your description, I can tell you that you like such arrangement and would have no problem in threesome so it is time lift the curtail and approach your maid to join your sex session with your wife and start fucking your maid too. It is beyond the matter of right and wrong as no one can tell you whether it is right or wrong. 

answered Jul 14, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,285 points)
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It is very clear That your wife & the maid have had a discussion on a Threesome hence this idea of going naked in the house.
its clear that the maid is looking forward to be screwed by you so instead searching here for answers here go & screw your maid along with your wife.
answered Jul 14, 2016 by manmumbai41 (450 points)
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Hello Albertvan,

I have to say that this reads more like a fantasy than something which is actually happening; however, one thing I've learned from my years as an editor on this forum is that you can never discount anything that people writing about. So I will treat this post as genuine, giving you the benefit of the doubt.

You don't tell us how long this has been going on for, but I would assume that it has been occurring for some considerable time. It seems to be one of those things that has progressed from something relatively straightforward to something that has a distinctly sexual component to it.

Has your wife always liked to be naked? Or is this something that she has been encouraged into by the made? It seems like the made is at least complicit in what is going on, if not the active partner in the whole thing. She certainly seems to be encouraging you to go naked in the house.

If you and your wife enjoy being naked, there's nothing wrong with that. What you do inside your own house is no one else's business, except those with whom you wish to share your lifestyle. I would suggest that if the made is busy encouraging the two of you to be naked together, then you should insist on the same thing with her. If you all naked together, then nobody has an upper hand as it were.

Given that your made is now sleeping in your room naked, and has started to take a more "hands on" role in the bedroom, it's pretty obvious to me that she wants sex. Your wife seems to want to see this as well, and probably even wants to participate.

Perhaps your wife is bisexual, and would enjoy intimacy with both you and the made, or perhaps she has a somewhat voyeuristic element to her sexuality, and would be excited by watching you having sex with the made. Regardless of what kind of activity the three of you get involved in, it would seem that your wife is encouraging it, and perhaps she finds that this spices up the sex life in the bedroom.

If your wife is encouraging this, and you have no objections to it, then I see no reason why the three of you shouldn't enjoy each other. Your made, at 50 years of age, still has a sex drive which needs to be satisfied. It would not surprise me if she feels compelled to masturbate when she sees and hears the two of you making love, given her close proximity to the two of you. She must feel really frustrated in not having a man (or a woman) to share her needs with, so perhaps, in this case, threesome sex would take care of everybody's needs.

There's nothing right or wrong, good or bad, nice or nasty insects. There is only the things that you do like, and the things you don't. As long as the three of you can enjoy each other without any file to the password form of jealousy, then there's no reason why you shouldn't have some fun. What goes on in your house, is your business, nobody else's.

So, I suggest you just relax, and let whatever is going to happen, happen. I'm sure you will enjoy it!!!

Love to the three of you,

answered Jul 15, 2016 by sexysalma (14,995 points)
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It seems clear that you maid and talked to your wife about sex and your wife has agreed to share you with her for sex. If you are interested in having sex with that 50 year old maid, go ahead and fuck her. Keep her satisfied.
answered Jul 27, 2016 by Anonymous101 (415 points)

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