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Is she also thinking what I am thinking?

asked Jul 2, 2016 in Questions by xpktv2000 (3,295 points)
edited Jul 4, 2016 by longhands1

There is a co-worker who had invited me to a gala event some months ago, and I went with her. It was innocent as I did not think anything about it. But ever since that night we have been talking a lot and have gone out to happy hour here and there and to the gym to chat and exercise together.

I find myself very attracted to her on a physical level but have not said a thing since she is married. Last week, after some time of silence, she invited me out to happy hour today and told me, out of the blue, that she is getting a divorce but was not heartbroken about it.

Is she giving me signals that she is interested in something? I really want some fun. How do I check out if we are on the same level and how do I make it work, while keeping it strictly physical and discrete?

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Yes, it sounds that she is interested in you but no one can confirm it except she so show some indirect signals that you are interested in her body as you found her gorgeous and sexy. Her reactions would make many things clear and you can make out whether you would get lucky with her or not.

However, you have to be upfront and clearly need to discuss with her that you want physical contentment only from her so if she is looking for long-term relationship or emotional bond that you are not guy for her.

It might be possible that since she is getting divorce, she needs sex partner to fulfill her physical requirement on daily basis but at the same time, she needs emotional supporter too to share her problems and feelings, which women usually look for. so set boundaries before engaging with her on physical level so no one would get feeling of being used one later on whenever you both want to go on your separate way.

answered Jul 4, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,220 points)
selected Nov 28, 2016 by xpktv2000
commented Nov 28, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,220 points)

Thanx for selecting my answer as a best answer.

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Dear X,

Your desire towards the co-worker is same as like many others. Its genuine because both of you might be come closer to that extent in which both of you can able to share feelings. When you feel someone then automatically your interest will be generated for someone. There are instances in which both are hesitating to approach each other and disclose what is going on in their mind as they are good friends.

This is a critical juncture in which you have to take a quick decision to discuss her about topics which would bring the topic to discuss. As she is going through the process of divorce so she might be felling alone. In this time she needs emotional support and caring and at last sex. If both of you are agreed then there is no problem for ethics. You have to clear her about your that you want to confine the relation with sexuality only. This will help you avoid any problem in future. Consent and awareness about affairs will helpful both of you because both of you can get married to another after-that. After ascertain about her interest you may create a chapter for your relation.

You have to clarify whether you want to take the advantage of the situation or you have feelings towards her?
answered Jul 4, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,735 points)
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To know her thinking about you, you should learn "Telepathy" then you would know easily that what she is thinking about you.

Telepathy is a method of communication of thoughts or ideas by means other than the known senses. There are so many telepathy  guru are available in market, just google for it.

With best wishes.
Nazia Hasan
answered Jul 6, 2016 by Nazia_Hasan (1,445 points)

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