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Are my doubts about my girlfriend correct?

asked Jun 15, 2016 in Questions by sameermalik0222 (140 points)
edited Jun 16, 2016 by longhands1

I have been in a long distance relationship with a girl. I really love her. She is 19 yeasrs old. Last night, while talking with her. she told me that she is goinf to drink alcohol with her cousin, who is 23 years old. It was her cousin who made her consume alcohol for the first time. She drinks with him, when her parents aren't home.

I found this very awkward, because she said that they both get very very drunk. Today, when i asked her about last night, she was trying to avoid Tthe topic.

I have read many questions here, regarding cousins having incest sex. All this is going on in my mind and I am getting frustrated. Please help me out. Could they be doing something wrong? Could he be taking advantage of her? Could he be having an incestous sexual relationship with her?

I am getting mad thinking about this?

Please, I seriously need your help.

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Stop over thinking because over thinking causes problems, that was not there in the first place. If she is avoiding the topic of last night, she did drink then in no way it suggests that there is something wrong there or she had sex with her cousin.

However, if you are not comfortable then let her know that you are not comfortable and ask her to stop drinking with him. You cannot blame her for anything as she has all right to get drink with her cousin and you cannot compel her to stop it just you can show your discontented citing that you are worried about her well being.

If you are unable to stop thinking worst thing, she could do then this relationship is going to end soon as you cannot go on like this.

You have two options right now either let her do what she wants to do or break up if you do not want to ruin your mental peace over it.

Trust her and believe her words as such stories about cousin having incestuous is not all the time right. She must be mature enough to understand what is right and wrong so have faith on her.

answered Jun 16, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,225 points)
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Frustration builds up anger, stress and depression. Do not get agitated over a matter you have no control. Just accept the fact that she got drunk and most probably had sex with her cousin. She also has a life of her own. She will also have sexual urges. Add to the fact that her parents were not home and the cousin encouraged/seduced her, she must have got laid. Now obviously, she is avoiding the topic. You either have to accept that she is having incestuos relation with her cousin, or break all relations with her. If you accept her as she is, never ever express your doubts to her. Continue your relation with her as if nothing happened between her and her cousin.
answered Jun 16, 2016 by oxheart707 (510 points)

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