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Do pheromones really work?

asked Jun 14, 2016 in Questions by deepakbyjagan (345 points)
edited Jun 15, 2016 by longhands1

Hi guys,

I am back with another question. Do pheromones really work? I have heard and read many sites which saythat  pheromones really turn on a women.

If I use a product which has these phermones, will women be attracted to me. I have a girl friend she doesn't allow me to get so intimate so thought of trying it on her.

Has anyone used this or anything else to have the desired result? Please share your experiences.

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commented Jun 15, 2016 by Nazia_Hasan (1,445 points)

You should have waited for at least 6-7 answers before choosing best answer. Don't choose best answer hurriedly otherwise you'll be deprived from intelligent answers. Anyway, giving answer to your question has been closed that's why I'm giving you answer through comment.

Pheromones are chemical substances naturally released by our own body (also animals), which aims to attract the opposite sex through olfactory stimulation of the senses. Pheromone signals are detected through an organ placed in the nose, the Vomeronasal Organ (VNO). Once the VNO detects the pheromones, it sends a sexual signal to the brain, transmitting information as mood and over all, sexual availability and compatibility.

We don't have the receptors to detect them.  Pheromones don't work on homo sapiens.  Scent memory and other stimuli yes, but that has nothing to do with pheromones.  We cannot detect them. Human olfactory sense has no ability to smell the pheromone, only animals have ability to smell the pheromone. Animals have no ability to talk, flirt or seduce the female partner that's why nature has given them ability to smell the pheromone. Humans has ability to talk, flirt and seduce that's why nature has not given this ability to humans. Humans can only smell the body odour of their partners not the pheromone.

The three pheromones most used in perfumes are androsterone, androstenol (or Exaltolide) and androstenedione, but these chemicals don't send any sexual signal to the brain of a female. This is a only selling gimmick of perfume companies. Using perfume which contains androsterone, androstenol or androstenedione chemical is not a punishable offence in India. There is no law regarding this in India.

Good luck.
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It might have an effect on women to get them aroused but here it sounds that you want to use such substance because your girlfriend does not allow you to have sex with her. Therefore, you want to make her ready for intimacy by using chemical on her but let me tell you that it is crime and may lend you in jail for your act so refrain yourself from doing it.

Why your girlfriend does not allow you to get intimate with her? Have discussed your idea of using pheromones when she is around? Your intention is not right towards your girlfriend.

If she does not want to have sex with you, then do not force her as she has all right to say no for sex and you have no right to force her to do something against her wish.

She will be destroyed if you use external essence on her to make her ready to have sex with you. I would suggest better to go to prostitute of you cannot control yourself. 

answered Jun 15, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)
selected Jun 15, 2016 by deepakbyjagan
commented Jun 15, 2016 by Lolwa (215 points)
Bro, I really respect your posts here on this forum. But this one is definitely not a good reply. You are telling him to visit a prostitute rather than telling him to talk with his gf and helping him in sorting things out in a right manner. Isn't going to prostitute wrong when you are in a relationship? What is she gng to think when she comes to know about it? If the guy isn't getting what he wants from his gf then he has every right to breakup and look for someone who takes care of his needs. Prostitutes are not the solution for his libido.
commented Jun 15, 2016 by deepakbyjagan (345 points)
Hai aplesh

U have mistaken me. Actually my girl friend doesn't allow me to hug or kiss even. But we r in relationship for a year. She text me saying tight hug to u and kisses to u but doesn't let me do that. That's why I thought of using this to turn her on. That's it and not like u said.
commented Jun 16, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)

If she does not allow you to kiss or hug her even after a year in a relationship then this is not actually a relationship but a friendship you both share under the name of relationship. It is time to clear your thoughts what you want from her. Do you want to continue the way she wants or you have a problem? Let her know that you cannot continue with her as you are not demanding sex but hug and kiss is common in relationship and if she does not want to allow you to do that, then call off the relationship as it is clearly waste of time. 

commented Jun 16, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)


You did not read my reply careful, what all I wanted to tell him that it is crime to use something on her to get what he wants. He came up with plan to use pheromones so I presumed that he must have talked about his libido to his girlfriend but yet his girlfriend does not allow him to have sex so he wants something stupid things to do with his girlfriend so I suggested prostitute is better than using pheromones and committing crime. Of course, break up is in the line if he is not satisfied. 

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