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My Mother-in-Law's Naked Body excites me. Will she allow sex?

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asked Mar 29, 2016 in Questions by Prashanth1984 (120 points)
edited Mar 30, 2016 by longhands1

Hi Anjali,

I am Prashanth, 31years old. 3 years back I got married and have a 2 year old Kid. For last 2 years, I have not had Sex with my wife as she is not interested.

Since we were married we had sex only 4 times. After delivery my wife completely stopped having Sex with me. I have shown her Porn Videos to get sex feelings and tried other ways also but it is of no use. My Mother-In- Law comes to my home often. She has a beautiful body structure. She is just 42 years old and is very fair.

My Father-in-Law passed away 6 years back. Now she is staying alone. 2 months back, unexpectedly, I saw her naked body, when she was changing her dress. I saw her in panty and bra. Then my Sex feelings started towards her. Since one month she is staying in my home.

While sleeping at night, her nighty goes up and I cn see her legs and Butt which is so beautiful. I am having the urge to fuck her. I am masturbating daily thinking of her. I cant control myself.

Can I ask her for Sex?

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Three years in marriage and you had sex only four times that is almost no sex in your life since marriage.

Right now, you have to figure out why she does not want to have sex and why she is not interested in sex. I am sure there might be many problems, which makes her averse of sex so better to consult first gynecologist and then psychiatrist to understand why she is averse of sex.

Discuss with her in detail and ask her to see doctors as you cannot go whole life without sex, as sex is the important part of married life.

As far as your MIL is concerned, I do not think that she can allow you to have sex with her just because her husband passed away and living alone.

She does not sent any signal that indicates that she wants sex. Therefore, focus on your wife and bring your sexual life back on track. It is not easy thing for you to make your wife understands that sex is necessary so put your best effort to sort out your problem with your wife rather than finding sex outside the marriage. 

answered Mar 30, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (27,770 points)
commented Mar 30, 2016 by Yogyabhai (120 points)
Fuck him firstly seduce him and them fuck him
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I think you have a chance to do so and you should. But the way should not be harsh. First took your wife to a doctor. Your mother in law can not please you forever.
answered Mar 30, 2016 by sm11 (185 points)
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Hello,

To be married and to live without sex is a miserable existence. i know it personlyy. it will affect your mantal and physical health. i see no life in such a situation.
you have not mentioned about your mom in law showing interest in you. it is not impossible to have sex with her if she is also interested and i know such relations exist.
it is possible that your mom in law knows that you are not having any sex life, as your wife must/ might have told her. women are frank about such matters between themselves. you definitely deserve sexual satisfaction. in this situation you can, in a decent manner, show your interest in her, and if she responds positively, it ok.
i know personally that women in their 40s are very much receptive to sex. they do show interest in other men, even if they are married. ( my experience)
you can tell your mom in law that your wife is not interested in sex and you are starving. she should know the truth. it is the duty of a wife to give sexual satisfaction to her husband. vice versa also. tell her openly and if the situation is cordial, you can indirectly show your interest too, in a non offending way.
you can take to your wife to a lady doctor first then for counselling later. this too will require your mom in laws help and support. so being with your mom in law regarding your situation is required ow to get help for your wife too.
Good luck
answered Mar 30, 2016 by sumitran9 (1,645 points)
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Prasanth,
I would suggest to consult your wife to a Doctor.. Just take a vacation and understand her .. Understamd her feelings why she isn't willing to have sex.. Hope this will work..
Yes, we can understand the pain of not having sex after gettig married...May be few times , so you ll have that urge.. Thats normal...

I would also say you should not have sex with mil..
Just look the society.. If it talks bad, its really shameful.. Imagine your own guilt as you commited a mistake.. Better avoid her..

Have an unlimited sex life with your wify :)
answered Mar 30, 2016 by thewetindworld (565 points)
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Dear Prashanth
         its common to get these kind of thoughts when your partner doesn't support in romance & sex.i really feel pity on you when u say that you hardy had 4 time sex in 3 year,that's really bad,60% of  mature ladies are nasty for sex,that too you have told you MIL is a widow lady since 6 year,she must be desperate too,since tiy gave seen her nude ,you get all the fantasy & not her ,first of be nice with her ,spend some extra time with her,let her feel as you care a lot about her,let her feel more comfortable with you first, do not take any decision in hurry, you start exhibiting to her, like remove you shirts  in front of her,do not were you underwear inside your shots,when you dick moves freely her eyes will surely go to your bulge are,these mature ladies are freaking horny,they get tempted more than teenage girl, then you know what all to be shown to her when you are sleeping in bed,get a good time & seduce her,let her pussy her pussy feel you hot rod,
Regard
Aman
answered Jun 20, 2016 by Anamika (235 points)
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Hi Prashanth, is this a fantasy of yours which you want to enact or is this true? I mean you are 31, your wife would be somewhere around 27-28 or 25 at the very least. You say your MIL is 42, that means she became a mother at 14-15yrs of age or at best 17. So she would have got married somewhere around a year before that around 13-14yrs of age considering you have married her eldest child. Technically not impossible but considering the educated background that you come from, the ages seem a complete mismatch.

Anyways, if I take your query at face value, I think you need to check with your wife. Since your efforts did not work, take her to a sex counsellor to understand what has put her off completely. Pregnancy along with a hyper child in his/her growing stages can tire out a woman completely so that she may not have any interest left for anything else. She could be suffering from that or some medical condition which was created due to childbirth. In either of the cases, you need to first & foremost put in all efforts to get your wife back on track.

Regards your MIL, well she is a widow & would have her needs but it certainly does not mean she would ready to get steamy in the sheets with her son-in-law. You have peeped in on her, I don't think she purposely showed her nude self to you or did she? Even if she agrees think of the consequences if you both get caught by your wife, how devastating that would be for her? Imagine if your father was rocking the bed with your wife behind your back, how would you feel about it? So in my opinion, devote time & attention with medical help if required & I think you can get your lovely wife back with patience. Till then, well you can keep masturbating to your MIL's fantasies. Hope this helps.
answered Jun 21, 2016 by nehasona (635 points)
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Firstly explain to your MIL your problem as a grievance so as to attract her sympathy. Then with the consent of your wife, you can ask your MIL for sex. It must be with understanding among all the three. One sexologist told me that 20% of women all over the world do not like sex. They want love only from husband, do no mind husband doing sex with other women without loving them. They are happy not being attacked by hubby's cock. They do sex just to get pregnant and to satisfy hubby. If he goes to other women she is happy that she gets rid of a liability of doing sex. Your MIL may be wanting sex, not expressing it to you. So you talk to both. At least, you have every right to take your grievance of sexual starvation to your MIL which may pave a way to achieve what you really wish for. Best of luck dear
answered Jan 17, 2017 by kunjumon57 (505 points)
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Husband-31 wife may be in early 20s and MIL just 42!!!! Come on man, either explain or talk sense please.
answered Jan 17, 2017 by gr8gaur (2,565 points)

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