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How should I deal with my wife's unorthodox sexual desires?

asked Feb 1, 2016 in Discussions by HuntSam (120 points)
edited Feb 1, 2016 by prashant69
I am sam 32 years old. My wife ******* is 8 years elder than me. She is  now at her 40's & she is already a divorcee. She doesn't have any kids from her ex husband. We fell in love at  my work place and got married.

Reason I am here with my question is I am really afraid and confused with her sexual  urges. She is 5.8 height and a broad structured. So sexually  very  strong and demanding  and expects sex more and more. Something is more attractive  in her as everyone will  find her wide big butt vety hot and sexy . Really big one. She's always proud to have that in her.

Something turned to be very surprising for me when she confessed a couple fantasies  and desires. I don't really understand how can  I deal with them . Yes we often discuss about many of our fatasiesin details . But from  last few months, she is requesting many of her unorthodox desires to be fulfilled. She's desperately wishing to be exposed in public by me. Asking me to press her boobs, slapping knowingly on  her firm tight  butt, absuse her calling vulger words . She literally wants to be noticed by people.

second wish she wants in bad way is  to be screwed by more than one guy at the same time while i would be watching  

Thirdly fantasy is  I am  have sex with a teen age  girl where she would  be watching it for her enjoyment.

Please suggest how should  I deal with this  situation? Shall  I go & agree what she wants ? I should I have sex with a teen infront of her and allow her to have sex more than one guy, where we both will watch each other's encounters?


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Hi ,
Actually she has confessed her desires to you openly , rather bluffing you and having a realtionship or cheating you behind . So if she really wants it , u can do it . But it all finally comes to you , you have to decide whether you are ready to do such things and you are ready face the situations . If you are ready then you both can enjoy the needs of her and satisfy her . If not dont it , make her understand its not right . Think carefully and proceed . My suggestion is say yes for a fuck to teen girl and you watching her when she gets fucked and talk vulgarly in ur house in your private and expose her if she really needs it but in online forums not in front of people around you .
answered Feb 1, 2016 by Rocky25 (190 points)
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I think she  is trying to be whore. I have one idea.
You have to fuck her any time in home. Fuck her 6 to 7 times a day in starting. Give her oral sex. You can use dildo for her satification. Be wild during sex with her. Lick her cunt madly. Just do it. Fuck her hard her all desire will be over.
answered Feb 1, 2016 by Ankit cool (985 points)
commented Feb 2, 2016 by HuntSam (120 points)
Yeah, Certainly I am doing the things you mentioned.
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You have  told  her orthodox fantasy. I think its something different than  your assumption. According to me she is a lady who want to grab an  attention but due to her age or her big butts  people are not giving due  attention to her, may be she is feeling   helpless and desperate with   that kinds of dull life and want to live some fatishes  in life. Just ask her what's she really wants  apart from  she wanting to wacth you  being intimate  with a teen girl I think its a pretense  to fullfil her own desires.If you will be ready for this then she also can enjoy with other men .
answered Feb 1, 2016 by kingmyaqueen (2,245 points)
edited Feb 1, 2016 by prashant69
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You can actually council her to a good doctor.
If still she is firm on her decision, the you can go to some
long distance tourist destination and let here have her
fair share.
answered Feb 4, 2016 by rockupman (190 points)
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I do not find these fantasies creepy at all, as many women have such kind of fantasies and such fantasies give them enjoyment. Bottom question is, are you comfortable with this or not? If you are not comfortable then you should discuss with her showing your intention that you are uncomfortable with the ides and do not wish her to do such weird things for pleasure.

However, if you find this thrilling then you may go ahead and can have fun mutually with all the fantasy. However, you both need to discuss the consequences. Do some compromise to minimize involved risk.


answered Feb 4, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (25,980 points)
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When you have sex with the teenager make sure she is 18, which is the age of consent. Underage sex is not legal. The rest seems fine, and its good you can openly share and discuss things. Good luck!
answered May 22, 2016 by Lavender (215 points)
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Dear H,

You explained your wife sexy and well build. As per your explanation your wife is feel good for her well shaped butt and body as like other women. She married you second time means that she might have sexual relation with the person he married. Now days it is a common phenomenon that boys and girls involved in sex before marriage. The fantasy of sexual orientation is become changing from time to time as like evolution of desire.

She have great faith on you so she can able to shared her feeling rather to involved in extra marital affairs. The threesome sex with a girl in teen or just above has been shown in some of the porn movies. She might be exposed to this type of movies.

A article published in TOI July 24, 2-13 shows that "Docs worried about rising teen pregnancy, self-abortion in....". Teen pregnancies in ...up by 50%. This reflects that teen girls are involved in sex before coming to legal age or unwanted pregnancy. In this case if you find someone who might be in risk then you can save her by protected sex. By doing this you can protect your wife from indulging sex outside and the girl who is under risk for pregnancy. By doing this you can teach the teen about the sex as like a sex teacher so that this knowledge will help her in future when she will mature enough to deciding partner for sex on later part of life.

answered Jun 5, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)
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I think she is very open to you. Its not her fault. Maybe she want to explore herself.

All this happens when you addicted to porn. Maybe she wants to enjoy her youth and wants to experience what others are enjoying with two partners.

Its really a danger fantasy. Kindly rethink while fulfilling her fantasy.
answered Oct 4, 2017 by Bab-chaku (105 points)

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