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What are the Issues that can be discussed with bhabhi? Can it be about sex?

asked Dec 16, 2015 in Questions by Bijaybijay (210 points)
edited Dec 19, 2015 by longhands1

I am a 26 year old male. I stay with my brother and my bhabhi.After they got married we all moved to Pune.

I shared my personal life with my ex-girlfriend with her (and a little about our sexual activity also). The problem starts when I realized that she knowingly rubs her breast to my shoulder when we are seated alone in the car, even thou there is enough space between us. I started feeling like having sex with her because I know that she is doing sexual things to me when we are alone. She always lean on my shoulder when I am doing something on my laptop and for the entire duration her breast touches my body. Sometime she show her vagina also though not directly but by sitting in an abnormal position.

Now, I have moved to another city. I desperately wanted to have sex with her but because of my gut feeling never said this to her and thought moving away from her might help me. Now, when we talk on the phone she shares everything with me. But, I don't know how much I should talk to her on various topics. For example, when she says that she has pain/headech, then I tell her that I can give her massage , but I am not sure that by saying this, I am doing right or wrong?

Today, also I want to have sex with her but I know this is wrong. And because of her talks and physical behavior when she was alone with me makes me think that she also wants to have sex. I think she wants some kind of physical activity about which i am not so sure. 

I was not able to find answers for my thoughts, so I finally posted this question here. Looking for help.


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As far as right and wrong is concerned, it is wrong as simple as that. What was your genuine aim to be with her? I suppose to make her contented as she was feeling depressed after knowing the fact about your brother’s age and what you are intent to do now, are two different things.

Her behavior clearly suggests that she wants to have sex with you but she might not be able to approach you in a straight line so being a woman she did what she could have done to instigate you. Now it is up to you what you want to do with her.

What I understand from your description is that you badly want to have sex with her but morally you do not have right to cheat your brother as it can tear down your relationship with your brother when you are caught. Therefore, if you are sure that you will not get caught then you may think of having sex with her. Chances are less for you to get caught but there are chances.

I would suggest you, refrain yourself but if you have decided to go ahead and would like to take a chance then when you find her alone in the home you may straight ask her for sex and I am sure from your description that she will not say no. You need to show some courage to get into her pants as being a woman she has been doing her best and impatiently waiting to widen her legs for you.

Best of luck and let us know the development.

answered Dec 17, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
selected Dec 19, 2015 by Bijaybijay
commented Dec 17, 2015 by Bijaybijay (210 points)
@ alpesh kapdi  I will definitely ask her about sex next time when we meet. Could you please help me with the second part of my question. What are the topics and limitations while having discussion on them ?  Because these days sometimes when she sends her pics to me i admire her beauty and tells her how beautiful she is looking. During convertation i normally tell her she looks like "Maal". Sometime she indirectly tells me that i shold not say Maal to her because bhaiya have read the massage and ask me to stop talking like this but as i am a computer geek i access her mobile massages remotely (which she does't know) and quickly comes to know that she is lying about it because as soon the conversation ends she deletes the massages.
commented Dec 17, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)

Since you both are open and comfortable with each other you may discuss any topics and there are no limitations unless she asks you to stay within limits. It is good that she deletes messages and you should keep insisting her to delete messages. Your main target is to get into her pants so focus on that. 

commented Dec 17, 2015 by Bijaybijay (210 points)
Sometimes she tells me that i am her dever and we must maintain some distance but again we go to the same comfort zone after sometime. By the way i will keep your suggestions in mind about get into her pants

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