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Why do I dream that my mother is having sex with another man?

asked Nov 16, 2015 in Questions by sahuprakash (120 points)
edited Nov 17, 2015 by longhands1

Hi guys,

I am 22 years old and my mother is 44-45 years of average size. All this started many years ago. At that time, I might have been around 12-14 years. I accidentally touched my mother's hips and I got a little bit aroused but I stopped myself at that time only. In between these years, some sexual thoughts come but still I had kept them aside (I never ever fantasized about her).

Some moths ago, I had a dream in which I saw a few people on the street and my parents were walking nude. She was fat, but after walking, she got into actual shape. This week, I dreamt that my mom is having physical relation with one old guy, in front of me and my father.

I cant control anything. I am feeling that if this came true, it would be fun if this happened secretly but not in front of me and family. I keep telling myself that this is not normal and it is wrong. I am feeling guilty about this. I cant talk about this to anyone.

Is it okay to have these weird thoughts and fantasy? Do I have some mental problem? If this really happens, will I be able to accept it? Is it ok to make this happen and how?

My mother has never had any type of relation / or flirted with anyone except my father. She is very simple and orthodox.

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One thing you need to understand that dream has nothing to do with real life and it will not be going to real. However you also need to understand that you cannot control your dreams and you should not try to do that as more you try more it get worsen so just let the dream come and overlook it.

There is no need to talk about it to anyone, as it is not worth to do. You do not have any mental problem and you are not alone who are getting such kind of dreams. Many men and even women experiencing such dream like his sister, mother, aunt, cousin sister with his friend or unknown person. Over a period of time you would become normal. However, still if you are feeling guilty about having such kind of dream regarding your mother then you may go to psychiatrist to understand the patter of your nature.
answered Nov 17, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (22,910 points)
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Hi Sahu,

From your question it looks like you are sexually very active (may be only mentally at present) and watch lot of porn with cuckolding and mature women (just my guess). Most of the times such kind of dreams do come, if you see such porns for a longer time and continuously think of the scenario you wish to see with your mom. Does your mom wears revelling dresses all the time or your parents do sex in your presence. That could be the reason to stimulate sexual attraction towards her.

Is it okay to have these weird thoughts and fantasy unless and until you don't plan to act on it. Morally incest is not good, but as you don't fantasy yourself involved in sex with your mom so that's fine.

I don't see there is any mental problem in you. This can happen normally if you are bought up in nuclear family and if you don't meet up many females than your mom. Also if you are spending lot of time alone at home, this kind of thoughts can arise in mind.

As you said your mom is not flirting with any other man and is orthodox, it's quite difficult that you can make this happen, but certainly there can be a kinky lady inside her which she doesn't want to display in front of you. There is only a possibility, nothing for sure. I know few females who are really clean social image, but inside four walls and on bed they are whore (not professionally of course. I mean very active sexually).

I'll suggest you not to think much about making it happen in real. As long as it is your fantasy, enjoy it.
answered Nov 21, 2015 by k.shastri (1,035 points)
commented Nov 21, 2015 by deepsingh (190 points)
Give up watching porn for a while. Especially incest videos if you are.
commented Nov 22, 2015 by longhands1 (77,100 points)

deepsingh, A Line Answer is a comment. So changed your Answer to Comment.

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Hi sahu
There is nothing wrong is dreaming about mother getting sexually involved with other men. Even i had the same fantasy for a long time which came naturally with no reasons. You should not be guilty anyhow about the situation whereas you should rather enjoy it make it spicier by getting yourself involved in making the thought process more erotic and exciting.
It's human behaviour and a prominent fantasy that we males have.
Thinking and fantasising is no crime.
answered Apr 13, 2016 by Aakassh (115 points)

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