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Is my bhabhi trying to seduce me?

asked Sep 13, 2015 in Questions by Ashu2230 (125 points)
edited Sep 13, 2015 by longhands1

Hello frends,

I am Ashu. I am very confused about my bhabhi. She is 34 years old. Few days ago, I was sitting in my room alone at night. After sometime my bhabhi came to my room wearing a loose t-shirt. She was not wearing a bra as I could see her nipples clearly. They were popped out and they were hard.

After sometime she sleeps next to me and was showing her ass to me. Then she changed her side. Now I was seeing her side boob. Later on she moved to her room.

She had come to my room at night without wearing a bra inside her tee shirt and in a nightie. My question is: Is she trying to seduce me or is it just my bad thoughts towards her?

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When you are 19, your hormones are working overtime and you begin to imagine scenes which may be harmless. What are the relations between your bhabi and her husband? Is your brother working overseas or is away from home for long periods of time? How friendly are you with your bhabi? Do you talk to her freely? I am sure that you have not even tried to flirt with her. Stop having big dreams.

From what you have described, your bhabi is not trying to seduce you. In a household, women are usually more casual in her dress and it being night time, your bhabi did not wear a bra and was wearing a nighite. Nothing wrong in that.

Clear your mind of petty thoughts and do not use these images to masturbate. This will help you to maintain a healthy relationship at home.     

answered Sep 13, 2015 by longhands1 (85,735 points)
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There is no doubt that it was your bad thoughts towards her as there is nothing which instigates us that your bhabhi trying to seduce you. There might be possibility that she use to sleep without bra and with a loose t-shirt many women do it. What is confusing part here is or you have not explained is, what type of discussion took place during that time, as it seems that she came and sleeps without uttering words and had left your room without telling you anything. She might come to you with purpose but could not tell you. There must be discussion between you both and that part would indicate her intention whether she is trying to seduce or not so please elaborate your question again.
answered Sep 14, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (27,745 points)
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She is generally talking to me nd after mintues she says that she was having pain in her arm at that time i said that i cn give uh massage bt she hesitated nd then she lay down nd started to sleep.



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answered Sep 14, 2015 by Ashu2230 (125 points)
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Lets get this straight, you are 19 young and naive, she is 34 and I am guessing experienced.  If she was wanting something she has the experience to ask for something.  Let her make the first move as you are younger.

An experienced person if they wanted sex would know how to ask for it and you would be left with no doubt.  If you wanted to play the game you could say to your bhabhi you are a teasing me, in a tongue in cheek kind of way.
answered Sep 14, 2015 by Idontknow. (800 points)
commented Sep 14, 2015 by Ashu2230 (125 points)

I m nt able to get it what should i do knw jst play the game or step aside.


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Dear A,

You shouldn't generalised the dressing pattern with the seduction or alluring attitude. These are some of the contradictory statements which proceeds in both the direction.

As she elder to you she mayn't thought about your thinking. Before any discussion you shouldn't guess her mind. For a healthy relationship you have to discuss with her for further course of action.

answered Sep 15, 2015 by bubu_002 (2,760 points)
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Is she is your real brothers wife ?? See everything is fine when it remains between two people, my be she spend long time with you since you are kid ?? Is that ?? So she look you like a kid , second thing she look you like a man now and the way you told here , she wants to turn on you , now you do nothing since you are not confirm about her intentions , wait and watch and nobody can tell you(if she want to seduce you) then its all your choice , so first see her next steps then tell us and what your decision , then I will tell you how to proceed. Hope you have great time soon.
answered Sep 15, 2015 by Jhonsm (1,215 points)
commented Sep 15, 2015 by Ashu2230 (125 points)
Ohk i will wait till her actions!
commented Sep 16, 2015 by Jhonsm (1,215 points)
As you said she ask for a massage , so it gives a little indication , but we can't say it confirm sign. You just try to get close and give her more erotic massage , like not only arms but also encourage her ( by passing smile and showing happiness when she ask for arm massage) to take back massage or full body massage, once she started stripping in front of you, then you are the boss , play with her orgys as you want. Don't forget to tell us your story once you conquer her. I love to listen such incidents.
commented Sep 16, 2015 by Ashu2230 (125 points)
Ohk i will surely tell uh wt happened next wid me

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