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How to convince my girlfriend for sex chat?

asked Aug 27, 2015 in Questions by anujcool (280 points)
edited Aug 27, 2015 by longhands1


My name is Anuj. I have a girlfriend since last 5years and I am getting married to her in next 3 years. I want to know how to convince her for sex chat as I am having some desires and we never get physical as she said she dont want to get physical before marriage.

I want her to do sex chat so that I can mastubrate and I am still a virgin but she ignores when I give signal to her for sex chat. Please suggest how I can convince her?


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You say you have a girlfriend for the last 5 years, but I am not convinced that she is your girlfriend. She is just your friend. You need to move out from this zone of being just a friend to being her boyfriend. Planning about marriage after 3 years is a long time to wait if you

How often do you meet? What do you talk about when you meet? Have you touched her? She has already laid the line that no sex before marriage and you will have to convince her otherwise. Your sex chats cannot remain sex chats as these normally progress into sex at some time or the other.

You can try paying her personal compliments like she has pouting or sexy lips, sexy figure etc and then find out how she reacts to your compliments. You can tell her naughty jokes and find out her reaction. If she does not object that you can get a hint that she is game for more.

In any case, do not talk directly about having sex with her as this will put her off. Call her at odd times at night and ask her what she is doing. You can also make up some fantasy involving her and talk to her about that. Like the way you would like to see her dressed etc. Be creative.  

answered Aug 27, 2015 by longhands1 (82,450 points)
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It has been 5 years since you have not forced her for sex or sex chat so better not to force her for another 3 years until you get married. If she has decided not to have sex chat with you or feels uncomfortable then it is your sense of duty to respect her sentiment. She is giving you clear indications by ignoring your wish to have sex chat.

There are two types of girls one, who have no problem in sexual stuff before marriage and second who are never comfortable in such stuff before marriage. Your girlfriend seems to be like second kind so your wish to have sex chat is not going to fulfill until you get married. If you are incapable to wait for 3 years, which is indeed a very long time, then you ought to make it very clear to her that what you want before marriage.
answered Aug 27, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (25,510 points)
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I dont think she will be convinced for sex chat atall,as you said 5 years of relationship and still she doesnt want to have sex chat.
Either she is so not into the sex thing atall or your so called 5 years of relation is not that good,no offence.
answered Aug 27, 2015 by Djlandd (465 points)

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