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Is it normal to have attraction towards women aged between 30-40?

asked Jun 4, 2015 in Questions by rocketraj (120 points)

Hi friends,

I am Arul and my age is 27. I am new to AA and I really find it useful for many people. Now my problem is right from my teen age and till now I am always attracted towards mature married women who wear low hip saree below their navel.

I cant control myself from looking at their assets. I always masturbate thinking about these mature women. I tried my level best to control myself but it does not wont, once I see a beautiful woman wearing low hip saree. Such scenes will create instant erection for me and I start masturbating thinking about that particular women.

Basically I respect women a lot but this particular habit really makes me feel bad about myself. Apart from this i don't have any other intentions like having sex, flirting, etc.

Friends, please help me to overcome this habit.


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It is perfectly normal for a young man to like older women. It is more to do with personal preferences like one like younger woman over older and vice-versa. Personally, I like older women as they are good at sex and men always think through dick.

Older women possess certain quality, which are hard to find in younger women. Young guys are captivated by an older woman's presence because most older women radiate a certain level of confidence and maturity within their demeanor that surpasses most younger women. Older women also have a certain degree of experience and wisdom that younger women don't. You will find that most older women are confident, charismatic, and attractive both inside and out.
answered Jun 5, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (24,005 points)
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Young guys do not “need” mature women. It is just a matter of convenience. As Moderator on this Site, I do agree, that we get at least one Post a day, where a young User is looking for Tips how to seduce his aunt or married neighbour.       

So why do young men want mature women? One reason could be that older women are better lovers as their focus is sex. While the girlfriend may make many demands before she agrees to having sex, the older woman will do it because she enjoys it herself. 

Young women may be energetic but will also be ambitious, unlike an older woman who has lived life and seen it. The older women may not be as pretty as the young girls, but they have experience on their side. They don’t beat about the bush (!). They know what they want and will be physically attuned to it.

Older women will not be shocked by what you ask for in bed. It could be bondage, bisexual encounter, threesome, role playing, whatever you want, she would be willing to give it to you. An older woman may be patient and willing to hear your tales of sorrow in bed and finally who does not like to keep their head on their mum's (?) chest and have his hair ruffled?  

Mature women would provide greater sexual and emotional intimacy without fear. Women who are of the same age expect the man to be the leader of the relationship and the decision maker. But this expectation is not there with a partner who is older. These younger men can relax. They can open themselves up to being more vulnerable and so receive more sexual and psychological pleasure. Men in their 20s and women in their 40s are both at their sexual peak. Both groups seem more interested in sex and with fewer preliminaries.

Hoping to hear “your” comments.

answered Jun 5, 2015 by longhands1 (80,625 points)
commented Jun 5, 2015 by rocketraj (120 points)
moved Jun 5, 2015 by prashant69
Thanks a lot for the reply friends. It may be normal but i want to overcome this habit of looking at their navel.
commented Jun 5, 2015 by prashant69 (7,040 points)

rocketraj, Being a new member you might not have been aware but remember a questioner can not 'answer' own question! However you can express on this question by the mode of 'comments' if you want to!

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Roketraj its not a habit..tell me a man who is not attracted towards navel peeping out of sari.You will not find one.Its is common part which attract us so accept it.for mature women..well everyone here love them...because there body is well develop and toned..every boy has fancied over them...and u know the reason by now which have been described by other members. As you grow this habit will change...untill then keep watching and enjoy it.
answered Jun 5, 2015 by Rarishi (175 points)

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