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How can I make girls my friend or girlfriend?

asked May 12, 2015 in Questions by chiragbohra (120 points)
edited May 14, 2015 by longhands1

I am a young boy and I do not have female friends. I want to make girls my friend. I cannot talk with them if they come in front of me. It makes me hesitate. I am also using facebook and want to make some girlfriends on it.

Please tell me what should I do to act bold and smart in front of girls.


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Dear chiragbohra,

I was like you,I cann't speak with girls nicely,i only talk when they are asking me something.I also felt uncomfortable,when i was around girls.But now,i have lot of female friends,Thanks to Members of AA they help
me a lot to over come this problem.I also like you to give advice.

1.Girls like to talk.First,when you meet girls in schools,colleges,etc just say "Hi.","Hi,How are you?" etc.But when   she responds ,you must look at her.In facebook just sent messages like "Hi","Good Evening" etc.But if she doesn't responds your message,she might be busy.If she responds your message you must respond her.Second time when you meet her smile at her.

2.Girls like a boy with self confidence .I had gained  my self confidence , when i talk with my mother,sisters,aunts and my neighbor.

3.Once you had made friendship with girl,you must know her likes,and dislikes.This will help you a lot to get closer to her.

4.Try to do meditation or self hypnosis for 15 mins or 30 mins.You must hypnotise yourself to build your masculine confidence  and to increase your tetestrone level.This will help you,when you are around  females,you will feel comfortable and you can approach any female and  can start a conversation.You can also download hypnotic tapes from Miss Jacqueline Powers from youtube.

5.To  impress a girl you must help her a lot.If she asks  you to do something,you must do.Please don't show your smartness in front of girl.If you show,she might think,you knew more than her.

I am sure if you would try to  follow this this advice,it will help you a lot.
Good Luck....
answered May 13, 2015 by wassekaran (570 points)
edited May 13, 2015 by prashant69
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1. Do not ACT bold/smart in front of girls. Do not ACT.

2. Be who you are. If that happens to be bold/smart or bumbling/fool. Be who you are.

3. Dress smartly. Don't be lazy when dressing up. Be presentable at all times.

4. Smell goo always. Even when sweaty. So invest in best of perfumes/deos you can afford

5. Enjoy yourself in everything you do. Girls like guys who are confident in themselves.

6. Do not go "after" girls. They are not things to be chased.

7. Learn a hobby/skill/technology. These things will not get you girls. But these things will help you develop confidence. Girls will come after that.

8. Be flirty. But don't show desperation.

9. Know what type of a person you are. Remember you will attract a certain type of woman/girl. So keep an eye out for such girls. you will have a better hit ratio with such girls. All of us want a girl with Sunny Leaones body, but such girls may not the ones who find you attractive.

10. It's a game of attraction. Learn the rules.

All the best!
answered May 14, 2015 by kinkyguy (1,415 points)

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