I am 28years old, working in an MNC. I stay with my girlfriend. She is 27 years old and works for the same MNC. We are living together for the past 2 years. She is from Delhi and I am from Chennai.
Our sex life is great and we both have several sexual fantasies like swapping, gangbang (me with girls and my gf with only guys). We love each other alot and trust each other a lot. This is the only reason we both enjoy our sex life even with fantasies of swapping, threesome and gangbang.
Now I an going overseas on-site for 6 months so my girlfriend will be staying alone here. I feel insecure that she will continue with out me. This is bothering me a lot.
If I tell her about my fears, she will say that she will not invite anyone, but I know that she is a freak in sex just like me. She will surely have sex even in my absence and tell lies to me.
I dont want to ask her or tell that am insecure because we have planned this sexual activities with several promises like we will never bring the "insecure" factor ever because, then our relationship will turn bad like indirectly saying er have lack of trust. We both have spoken on this topic of being jealous or insecure and see this activities as sexual fantasy and part of sex life.
I really dont know how to tell her because if I say that I am insecure then it may be the end of our fantasy world.
Tell me what should I do?
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